Hello Everyone,
I am sorry for the mass email. We just got home from our trip to Boston Children's Hospital and I wanted to give you all an update on Nathan. You have all been so kind to ask about him every week. I thought it would just be easier to tell you through email.
We saw a Brachial Plexus specialist today and all of your prayers must have been working because Nathandemonstrated more today than he has ever done. There are four key motions that Nathan has to demonstrate to show that the nerves in the neck and shoulder are firing to the muscles. Nathan has been doing two of them over the past few weeks, but we have not seen the other two. Just last Friday we were at therapy and we were trying so hard to getNathan to lift his arm in a sitting position and Nathan was not even close to demonstrating this. He has never shown signs of lifting the arm unless he is laying down. Nathan was completely off his schedule today and rallied to the occasion. You would never know that this little boy hates to eat or sleep because he was so pleasant for all the doctors. He was evaluated by four different people over a two hour period today and for every one of them he showed that he could lift his arm while sitting. We were shocked!!! It was just unbelievable that today was the day he was going to show us that he could do it. He demonstrated everything that he is capable of doing today. That was what was so difficult about this appointment. If he was not in a playful mood and did not feel like lifting his arm, they could not get an accurate assessment of which nerves were working.
After todays assessment, the doctor does not feel that he needs reconstructive nerve surgery at this time. That is the surgery that is extremely time sensitive and would need to be done immediately. With Nathan's feeding problems and recent diagnosis of aspiration, it would be extremely difficult to operate right now. There is still one more movement thatNathan needs to be able to do, but time is on our side. If he needs the nerve transfer surgery we can do it any time up to 12 months and still get the same results as if we did the surgery tomorrow. The doctor is very optimistic that Nathan will continue to improve with therapy and not need the surgery at all. This is a completely different outcome than both therapists we work with suspected as of last week. We will follow up with the team of surgeons here in Pittsburgh on July 9th and the team in Boston on July 23rd to reassess his progress and make a final decision on the surgery. I just know my little guy is going to once again show us who is in charge!
On another positive note, Nathan has not had a major vomit in 6 days. This is huge for him!!! He has not gone more than 2 days without vomiting in 7 months. In addition, he opened his mouth to eat solid foods for the first time today. For the past several months we have been trying to feed him and he would lock his lips and scream. We truly believe the new medications are working and hopefully this little guy is starting to turn the corner. He is still eating very little and not gaining weight at healthy rate, but over time we hope that he is not afraid to eat because he will learn that it does not hurt him.
Mike and I can not thank you all enough for your thoughts and prayers. Nathan is so lucky to have you in his life. You are not just part of the studio, you have become part of our family over the years and we have all been through many ups and downs together. He has no idea how much he is loved and how many people are supporting him. We are not out of the water yet, but today proved to be a positive step in the right direction for many of Nathan's challenges. That is all we can ask.
We will keep you posted. In the mean time...keep the prayers coming!
Beth
Beth,
ReplyDeleteWe are so happy for all three of you...your joy and relief come through the computer! You realize that he is just trying to show you that he has been bitten by the travel bug!!! I see many swanky hotels and room service in his future. I also see a very healthy little boy!
Can't wait to see you Wed.
Pat
Beth- Thank you so much for this update on Nathan. We will pray that he continues to progress and thrive, and that you and Mike are blessed with the strength to help him along the way. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Karen
Dear Beth,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the e-mail update! I don't talk to you nearly enough to let you know how much Nathan, you and Mike are on my mind and in my prayers. I see your mom for the big stuff but this email is truly a celebration. And, yes, I know you continue to be in the midst of of this VERY difficult first year, but if the trajectory is straight on out from here that would be extremely helpful for Nathan's health and for you and Mike as new parents. I know your faith, family and friends have been very helpful and important through this. I am so hoping that this new turn of events brings you and Mike more peace and complete and total healing for Nathan.
I am so glad to know that the Boston appointment was so worthwhile and that Nathan was so pleasant with the doctors. That is truly a blessing because the doctors would not have been able to get a good assessment otherwise and possibly scheduled surgery unnecessarily. And, now Nathan is being given the gift of time which seems to working in his favor with the new "gastro" meds helping him with eating.
Beth, we will continue to keep Nathan in prayer that the therapy will allow the nerves to regenerate avoiding surgery and that the medicines will allow him to enjoy eating and thrive. And, I do pray that he will play baseball and piano and eat your mom's meatballs!
Love & Prayers,
Tracy
This is so awesome! I'm so very happy for all three of you! That's pretty incredible- all the improvement! He's a trooper and he's gonna keep proving those Pgh Drs wrong!
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Love you all!
Beth I am crying while reading this this is such wonderful news all the way around!!! Hope IS around the corner and Nathan just showed you all, didn't he?! Wow. I can't believe it all! He is going to be okay! It is all going to be okay. I'm so glad you went out on a limb for Nathan and went to Boston. As difficult as it has been for you to accept his diagnoses, you just took all this on at once and faced facts. I'm sure that took courage that many just don't have, Beth. How many moms would have just looked the other way in denial. I'm just so happy that he turned the corner. I think about you guys all the time and oh if I could only hug you now I would break a few ribs!!!! Okay! Whew! So proud of the little guy. What an impressive feat of strength. I knew he had it in him. Deep down I know you guys knew, too.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless You ALL! We have to celebrate! When do you get back?
Dana
Yeah! Great news Beth, we are happy for you guys!!!
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Mary, Brian and Emily Grace
God does INDEED answer prayers. That Nathan just wanted to show those Boston doctors what this Pittsburgh boy can do !!!!
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Margee